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Work With Me
Choose the support that fits your moment.
Whether you need a short reset, deeper coaching, or a calm space to finally release the past, here's how we can work together.
Different Drummer helps you reconnect to your inner signal and build emotional capacity, so you can move forward with steady confidence.
My Philosophy
Personalization beats pressure.
Many people don’t need more motivation. They need a more defined direction, delivered at a pace that keeps them regulated and honest with themselves. This work is calm, structured, and specific so you can move forward with less friction.
Services
To achieve the best results, all sessions are held through Zoom.
Rhythm
Reset
A precision, single-session method for reorganizing the nervous system after chronic stress and conditioning
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Individual
Coaching
Open-ended coaching for patterns, choices, identity shifts, and follow-through without forcing.
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Couples
Guidance
A judgment-free session to clarify what’s happening and explore positive next steps together.
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Family
Coaching
A structured space for family obstacles, so everyone has a voice and patterns can be identified.
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Team
Coaching
Constructive, non-judgmental support for dynamics, communication, and shared clarity.
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Who it's for
My programs are for individuals
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Doing the work
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Overwhelmed by generic systems
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Wants calm structure
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Thrives with practical next steps
My programs aren't designed for
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Quick-fix seekers
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People outsourcing responsibility
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Anyone wanting hype or “miracle” promises
The Process
Step 1
Get clear
We name what’s real, what’s noise, and what outcomes are the most significant.
Step 2
Build capacity
We reset the rhythm of your nervous system so you can stay present with the work (not panic, shut down, or avoid).
Step 3
Move forward
With a defined direction and a realistic plan, you take one next right step after another.
FAQs
What if I don’t know what to talk about?
That’s okay. We’ll start with what feels loud, unclear, or heavy and get specific quickly.
How many sessions do people usually need?
It depends. Some people need a clear reset. Others want ongoing support. We’ll decide based on your goals and bandwidth.
Do you offer discounts?
Yes—$50 off for first responders and military.
What my clients think
EMILY T
PROGRAM MANAGER
Kelly’s approach of compassionate accountability maintains space for emotional and spiritual exploration while also developing logical strategies to reach my goals.
I cannot express the impact Kelly’s coaching has had on my life and personal growth. I will forever be grateful for the role she has played in my journey to becoming the woman I am meant to be.
TOM D
CAPTAIN
Life Coaching with Kelly, after each session, I always come away feeling better than when I went in. We have navigated through interpersonal challenges and career goals. Our sessions are productive, restorative, insightful, and useful.
Kelly is very adept at giving attention to specific challenges, while keeping focus on broader goals. Her seamless application of NLP techniques have been extraordinary at helping to find and define strategies for the future.
ERIC C
M.A. - COUNSELING
Kelly helped me pull things together that I otherwise would have left in disarray. She has a great way of bringing light to the unseen and conjuring a creative and dynamic way of uncovering hidden mental fallacies.
Her style is both empowering and uplifting and helps to rewrite negatives scripts that I've been carrying since I was a young man.
